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What’s the Single Most Attractive Quality in a Woman?

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

posted by amy

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483 Comments

Comment by asha

October 25, 2007 @ 11:22 am

It varies and depends on the type of man, his age and his personality type. There are a few common attributes that are respected and admired.
One very popular one is humour, any man will like a funny women, she is fun to be around and a laugh. Meaning good company. Warm Regards

Comment by andi

October 25, 2007 @ 11:26 am

I think guys are attracted to cool women who are comfortable in their own skin and not overly emotional.

Comment by Christina

October 25, 2007 @ 11:58 am

I think the single most attractive quality men look for in women is their sense of humor.

Comment by naima

October 25, 2007 @ 11:58 am

look are the sonlge most attractive quality that men look for in a woman

Comment by Mimoza

October 25, 2007 @ 12:05 pm

Nothing attract man more than originality . A woman should be real and be here not acting , have self security and confidence . Have a sense of humor. Eye contact and a honest smile will do the work.

Comment by Honey Cakes

October 25, 2007 @ 12:13 pm

I think the single Most Attractive Quality in a Woman is Emotional Maturity

Comment by Sharon

October 25, 2007 @ 12:18 pm

I believe men find self confidence in a woman the most attractive quality.

Comment by Susan Matheson

October 25, 2007 @ 12:43 pm

I believe that the single most attractive quality a woman can have is confidence. I think men find this extremely sexy. This can be somewhat difficult though, because when a woman is very interested in a man she will often clam up, perhaps say stupid things and even sweat in places she never knew she had sweat glands! Confidence is definately the answer. High heels don’t hurt either!

Comment by janette

October 25, 2007 @ 12:44 pm

I agree on self confidence and to add to it is inner strength behind utmost femininity.

Comment by janette

October 25, 2007 @ 12:45 pm

Being feminine.

Comment by Jasmine

October 25, 2007 @ 12:48 pm

Self-Confidense!

Comment by Kitty

October 25, 2007 @ 1:00 pm

Personality. It will show a man if your someone he may be interested in pursuing.

Comment by Chrissie

October 25, 2007 @ 1:04 pm

I think every man is unique and thus each has their own ‘thing’ that they would qualify as the most attractive thing in a woman. But I think confidence will make a man melt every single time.

Comment by Janice

October 25, 2007 @ 1:08 pm

Confidence. Confidence looks sexy on everybody!

Comment by Monica

October 25, 2007 @ 1:17 pm

I think the number one quality a man looks for in a woman is…..a woman who has her own life…this makes her very attractive because she is not dependent on him.

Comment by Valarie

October 25, 2007 @ 1:32 pm

I think men are attracted to a positive woman with a sense of humor.

Comment by Gloria

October 25, 2007 @ 1:43 pm

Confidence: I think men see a confident woman as independent, smart, sensual, sexual. Capable to: communicate clearly, have a life of her own, be happy.

Comment by Jackie

October 25, 2007 @ 2:07 pm

Men want someone they can have fun with, inside AND outside the bedroom. They want a woman who doesn’t take things too seriously and is able to make fun of herself sometimes. They want a woman who not only actually understands and laughs at their jokes but also makes them laugh with her jokes and antics. They want a woman who is able to have fun in almost any setting with almost any person, whether she’s having a spa day with her girlfriends or cheering on his favorite football team with his buddies (even if she’s not an aficionado of football, she’s showing her support). A woman who is fun is someone who constantly keeps men on their toes and keeps the spark alive in the relationship.

Comment by flo

October 25, 2007 @ 2:13 pm

The women who accept,cherish and respect themselves and respect and care for others (no doormats pls) are more likely to have a greater attraction pull to men because they seem to be more confident and happy..

Comment by A luthra

October 25, 2007 @ 2:22 pm

A great attitude.

Comment by TAY

October 25, 2007 @ 2:34 pm

The answer has to be Confidence, hands down. A man loves a woman who is Confident, No matter what she looks like. I believe that a man or woman for that matter, finds it hard to love a person who doesn’t love themself.

Comment by Renee

October 25, 2007 @ 2:38 pm

I think the SINGLE most attractive quality that men look for in a woman is SELF CONFIDENCE. This quality brings out the other qualities at its best hence women become irresistable to men.

Comment by Kim

October 25, 2007 @ 2:48 pm

I think the single most attractive thing men look for….Confidence

Why confidence because if a woman shows confidence or acts confident then the rest flows right along with it and everything falls into place.

Comment by R

October 25, 2007 @ 3:00 pm

I think it is emotional maturity, better still with great sense of humor because then he will feel happy to be with her.

Comment by Sadiqah

October 25, 2007 @ 3:27 pm

Comment by Sadiqah

I think the quality is a nice smile.

Comment by meg

October 25, 2007 @ 3:36 pm

i think men look for in a women most is confidence in her self

Comment by Debbie

October 25, 2007 @ 3:50 pm

I belief it’s confidence

Comment by Debra

October 25, 2007 @ 3:55 pm

I believe the single most attractive quality in a woman that men look for is trustworthiness. He needs to know that he can trust her.

Comment by Lisbeny

October 25, 2007 @ 3:59 pm

I believe that what makes a woman truly attractive to a man is walking with her head high…confidence isn’t quite the word…it is simply KNOWING that she is worthy of love and affection from a quality man…it is more than being “hard-to-get”, it is knowing what she wants, and knowing how to be the woman who deserves that great man. being genuinely humorous and witty and exuding a sense of having a passion for SOMETHING is the most attractive quality. Having passion for a cause, a belief, a hobby or skill of some sort, can attract the masses.

Comment by Cathy

October 25, 2007 @ 4:05 pm

Most men are initially attracted by your appearance, which is important why you should always make the effort to look nice when meeting men. After that, you’d better have a good personality (a good smile, outgoing nature, confidence) to keep them interested.

Comment by Geleesa

October 25, 2007 @ 4:10 pm

i think the single most attractive quality ina woman that men look for is her sense of humor. it6s kinda hard getting along with a person who’s always uptight and doesnt know how to chill out and have fun.

Comment by Ann

October 25, 2007 @ 4:28 pm

I think the one thing men are want in a woman is love, I mean unwavering love. They are looking for someone who will love them the way they are. And with this kind of love you dont cling on him but wil respect him , try to understand him. In short all the other things like emotional stability, independence, confidence, and yes, looking good will come natural when you love in a mature way. I think that’s it coz no man will want a girl who will run away at the slightest provocation

Comment by Jill

October 25, 2007 @ 4:48 pm

Confidence! It is scientific, but can also be tested by us too. Women (and men) that carry themselves confidentally attract other possible mates. Ever lost a lot of weight and felt good about it? I have and it seemed that there were suddenly more guys interested. BUT I BELIEVE IT WAS THE CONFIDENCE that I gained in that short amount of time that helped…plus good confident posture that I gained from walking for exercise. However, I think being overly confident can be one of the least attractive traits. Being too consumed by yourself, appearance, and treating others as less than you may just show a person how unattractive a person can be. Plus, I think confidence says “I am alright if I don’t have someone, but if sparks happen to fly I will be fun to be around”.

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