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Body Language and Dating, Part 1

Thursday, July 27, 2006

posted by james

No one can deny that body language plays an important role in catching girls’ attention–and noticing it.  A lot of attention has been paid to how we men can flirt better with women, but don’t forget knowing when THEY are flirting at US.  So many times we miss out on a potential mate because we don’t notice that’s she interested in us.  With that said, here are some common body language cues women give off.  Keep your eyes open–and your body ready.

BAD BODY LANGUAGE

  1. Not making eye contact with you—looking around, eyeing her friends, looking anywhere but at you

  2. Legs crossed—always a bad sign.  This means she’s closing herself off to you

  3. Arms crossed—This can convey annoyance and impatience.  Definitely a bad sign.

  4. Hands on her hips—This can also convey impatience.  Not looking good.

  5. Leaning backwards—It’s much better when a woman is leaning towards you.  If you notice her leaning away from you, keeping her distance, it means you’ve gotten too close for her comfort and she’s not that into you, at least at this point.

  6. A weak handshake—Do you shake a girl’s hands when you meet her?  If you do and notice that hers is weak and she is quick to take back her hand, then she’s not very impressed.

GOOD BODY LANGUAGE

  1. She looks down when you see her and smiles–A very good sign.  She’s shy but wants you to come over to talk to her.

  2. She’s twirling her hair around–Definitely into you.

  3. Licks her lips–unless you can tell she’s screwing with you, this is a very good sign!

  4. Open legs–Open legs, open mind.  She’s open to hearing more from you–and who knows what else.

  5. Sideways glance–The classic Hollywood flirtation, this is a coy, seductive way of showing her interest

  6. Fondling a cylindrical object (cigarette, glass, etc.)–VERY good sign!  And a hint of what she may have in mind for later on in the evening…

  7. Fondling her shoe (shoe is slight off her foot, twisting her foot in circles)–This is that classic shy signal that girls use to display interest.

  8. The "leg twine"–one leg pressed hard against the other to give the appearance of high muscle tone–very good sign

  9. The head toss–If she tosses her hair back over her shoulders, this is definitely a good gesture.

  10. Exposed wrists–If she’s interested in you, she will gradually display the smooth, soft skin of her wrists to a guy she’s interested in.  Wrists are actually considered one of the more erotic areas of the body–so if she’s showing you this sexual area–go for it!

Hopefully you can put some of these lessons to use right away.  Good luck, and stay tuned for Part 2, when I’ll show you how to send off some body language signals of your own to women you’re interested in. 

15 Comments

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Comment by Nininy

July 31, 2006 @ 1:52 am

That’s interesting!I’ve never noticed that! I’m looking forward for the next part! Thank u guys!

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Comment by dundas

July 31, 2006 @ 9:01 am

never knew about the wrists…that is interesting stuff. definitely want to learn more about what us GUYS should do to the ladies. the sooner the next column the better!

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Comment by Slayer

July 31, 2006 @ 11:13 am

Sup JAMES?! this stuff is Killer. I cant wait to go to the bar now and watch for this stuff-that is, assuming girls are into me! at the very least Ill know what kind of b.language theyre giving if they’re NOT into me! lol. Anyway man, awesome stuff, you should write more stuff like this, it helps us guys out in more practical wayz. Later dude. SLAYER

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Comment by Mikey!

July 31, 2006 @ 3:37 pm

Really good stuff, James. I’m sure there are other signals one could add to the list, but definitely stuff I will watch for next time I go out with my buddies. The guys out there should know that a slap in the face is also body language that a girl’s not into you!! But I guess that one’s obvious. Can’t wait for the article on what body signals we guys should send.

Mikey!

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Comment by Leon

August 2, 2006 @ 2:36 am

Good stuff, James, But I’ve read these things before, But never relied upon them .. I have always used my intuition in approaching women, Which I’m very sucessful in my persuits. There is no cut and dry appoach, that works with all women. .. The things that work for me is, The ability to engage a woman before a word is even uttered. It’s a vibe and body language you get from women, It’s an ability that come from deep in my subconcience, which gives my concience the go head to act. And I find it to be fool proof. … One of the reasons I read your teachings is, to see if there anything to add to my already sucessful approach to women. .. Always looking to learn as much as possible. .. Keep up the good work. Leon

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Comment by rusty

August 2, 2006 @ 4:28 am

can we please use pictures next time.
Thanks

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Comment by ishaq

August 2, 2006 @ 10:16 am

i really like this stuff. i can’t wait to read the rest of this article. It has really educated me on the lady i want to spend my life with and i thing i am in the right direction. Keep up the good work done.

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Comment by Denis Blay

August 2, 2006 @ 8:16 pm

In fact I have enjoyed the article, but my worried is that I’m in Ghana so is hard to get access to your programmes and if you can help by sending some of you stuffs to me I will like it in fact I’m interested. thanks for that.

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Comment by Joaquin

August 3, 2006 @ 2:11 pm

Denis-you should try out the mini newsletter it’s really good. Has audio you can listen to. I also tried the e-book which has some photos and illustrations of what to do and not do. maybe that will be helpful for you?

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Comment by Xavier

August 3, 2006 @ 2:36 pm

James, I think you should give these guys some pictures. There seems to be a high demand for illustrations.

Xav

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Comment by Mohib

August 3, 2006 @ 4:28 pm

Thank you James,
These tips are really helpful and some of these will definitely work in a conservative country like Afghanistan. Keep it up.

Mohib

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Comment by knucka

August 4, 2006 @ 9:18 am

thank u james
i’ll look 4 them signs 2mrrw nite!
I have 2 meet 2 grils see u soon

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Comment by gilbert

August 8, 2006 @ 6:14 am

it’s so impressionnant this stuff!
but, i want to know if we can use this study in any steps of our relationships!

Comment by Gregory

January 10, 2007 @ 4:58 am

hi, very nice site. thanks you!

Comment by Josh

January 11, 2007 @ 8:18 am

Hi! Very nice site! Thanks you very much!

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