No one can deny that body language plays an important role in catching girls’ attention–and noticing it. A lot of attention has been paid to how we men can flirt better with women, but don’t forget knowing when THEY are flirting at US. So many times we miss out on a potential mate because we don’t notice that’s she interested in us. With that said, here are some common body language cues women give off. Keep your eyes open–and your body ready.
BAD BODY LANGUAGE
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Not making eye contact with you—looking around, eyeing her friends, looking anywhere but at you
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Legs crossed—always a bad sign. This means she’s closing herself off to you
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Arms crossed—This can convey annoyance and impatience. Definitely a bad sign.
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Hands on her hips—This can also convey impatience. Not looking good.
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Leaning backwards—It’s much better when a woman is leaning towards you. If you notice her leaning away from you, keeping her distance, it means you’ve gotten too close for her comfort and she’s not that into you, at least at this point.
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A weak handshake—Do you shake a girl’s hands when you meet her? If you do and notice that hers is weak and she is quick to take back her hand, then she’s not very impressed.
GOOD BODY LANGUAGE
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She looks down when you see her and smiles–A very good sign. She’s shy but wants you to come over to talk to her.
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She’s twirling her hair around–Definitely into you.
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Licks her lips–unless you can tell she’s screwing with you, this is a very good sign!
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Open legs–Open legs, open mind. She’s open to hearing more from you–and who knows what else.
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Sideways glance–The classic Hollywood flirtation, this is a coy, seductive way of showing her interest
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Fondling a cylindrical object (cigarette, glass, etc.)–VERY good sign! And a hint of what she may have in mind for later on in the evening…
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Fondling her shoe (shoe is slight off her foot, twisting her foot in circles)–This is that classic shy signal that girls use to display interest.
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The "leg twine"–one leg pressed hard against the other to give the appearance of high muscle tone–very good sign
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The head toss–If she tosses her hair back over her shoulders, this is definitely a good gesture.
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Exposed wrists–If she’s interested in you, she will gradually display the smooth, soft skin of her wrists to a guy she’s interested in. Wrists are actually considered one of the more erotic areas of the body–so if she’s showing you this sexual area–go for it!
Hopefully you can put some of these lessons to use right away. Good luck, and stay tuned for Part 2, when I’ll show you how to send off some body language signals of your own to women you’re interested in.