Many of us have no clue what a man wants in a relationship. If we're cynical, we may think he just wants sex, someone to keep him from feeling alone, or the status of having a girlfriend. If we're romantic, we may think that he wants love, a life companion, and a mother for his children.<\/p>\n
And if we look into our own hearts, into the many complex reasons we <\/em>want a man in our lives, we often find a little bit of all of the above. The proportions may be different, but none of us can deny that the benefits of a relationship include companionship, intimacy, a change in status from "single" to "couple," love, partnership, and a shared future.<\/p>\n But what most of us don't know is how important relationships actually are for men<\/em>. According to the National Marriage Project<\/a> (supported by Rutgers University), marriage transforms men's lives in positive, healthy ways. Married men are more productive, earn more money, get sick less, think more about the future, are happier, and even have better sex lives. According to sociologist Steven Nock, marriage is also a rite of passage from boy to man.<\/p>\n The National Marriage Project 2004 study on "The Marrying Kind: Which Men Marry and Why<\/a>" reveals that the type of man most likely to look forward to a future of marital bliss is religious, has grown up in a family with both parents, and feels it's time to settle down. Surprisingly, most men (more than two out of three) do not <\/em>believe that the purpose of marriage is having children.<\/p>\n Most of these men are married for the first time by the time they're thirty. Which brings us to the second group that the study examined: the non-marrying kind (22% of those surveyed). These are men who believe that marriage is not for them: they are significantly more likely to distrust women, fear losing their personal freedom, focus on the high divorce rate and bad marriages, and not want children. The study suggests that the notion of the thirty-something bachelor who's finally getting ready to settle down after sowing his wild oats is, in fact, a myth. Many thirty-something single men are undecided or even opposed to the idea of getting married anytime soon.<\/p>\n Therefore, if you're seeking a partner with long-term potential, here are 3 things you should look out for:<\/p>\n To learn more about how you can attract the right kind <\/em>of man for lasting love, click here<\/a> and discover "How to Be Irresistible to Men," the ultimate guide for attracting your soulmate. Stop wasting your time with men who aren't worth it. Discover how to tell when a relationship is right for you. You'll be amazed at the quality of men you'll attract. Get it now at:<\/p>\n\n