I don't think there's anybody who doesn't know this already, but just in case … we've just launched a fantastic 6-Part MiniCourse for Sarah's "How to Be Irresistible to Men" course! Sarah and I have been working on the minicourse for the past month, and it reflects many of our new ideas about where the 2006 Edition of "How to Be Irresistible to Men" will be going. Each day introduces you to a new concept that will transform how you think about love and dating. You can get it by signing up to the "How to Be Irresistible to Men" newsletter series at www.000relationships.com/tomen/ [1].
I'm really excited about what Sarah and I have created. I don't think that any program like this exists yet for women. I've read sooo many dating and relationship books over the past year, and most of them teach one thing: how to manipulate men into falling for you.
But I don't want men to simply fall for me. I want love! I want REAL love, a guy who will commit to me freely, from his own heart, and work on our relationship with a genuine desire for intimacy. I want the kind of love that long-married couples have, the kind that only arises after you've worked through conflicts and difficult times together and come out stronger.
Most of the techniques taught in popular dating books will attract men to you, that's for sure. But once you get into a relationship with those men, you'll find that their attraction was shallow. You have to keep your games up to keep his interest level high.
That's because his initial feelings of attraction to you isn't actually love. It's infatuation. And, let me tell you, it's easy to get a guy infatuated with you!
Personally, I don't want to have to keep playing games to keep a guy interested. I want to know that when the first sign of trouble arises, when that "veil of illusion" falls and he sees all my flaws, that he's going to make the decision to stick with me and work through whatever conflicts arise.
But to get to that point, I have some work to do on myself. I have to be the kind of woman that men naturally feel comfortable with … the kind of woman that men know won't judge them … the kind of woman who is not only fun but also makes them feel more alive, more masculine, and more at peace.
Many women will say, "Hold on a minute. It's is the point of my life to make men's lives better. He has to do something for me, too!"
But it's exactly that kind of thinking that sabotages relationships. The kind of thinking that says, "I'll give you love if you give me love."
Have you ever been loved unconditionally? If so, you know how wonderful it feels to be loved no matter what … no matter what you've done for the other person … no matter whether you've hurt them or not … you simply know that you'll be loved anyway.
If you are doing something so that you can get love back from a man … if you're treating him a certain way so that he'll treat you a certain way … then you may benefit from our 2006 "How to Be Irresistible to Men" course. It will teach you how to let your inner light shine in such a way that men will be drawn to your radiance. You'll learn to let go of your expectations and instead trust in the natural course of attraction. You'll learn how your beliefs create your reality, such that simply by shifting your thinking you can transform your love life.
There's only one catch: the 2006 Edition of "How to Be Irresistible to Men" hasn't been launched yet. We're starting filming on it tomorrow. We've got a fantastic guest speaker in, and I truly believe that magic is going to happen in the studio. I'll keep you posted on its progress!
If you've already purchased the 2005 Edition of "How to Be Irresistible to Men," then you'll get the 2006 Edition free! That's because every purchase of "How to Be Irresistible to Men" gives you lifetime membership to our Members Area. You can start working on the current course and be ready to take your attraction to the next level when the 2006 Edition is launched.
For now, I highly recommend that you try out the 6-Part MiniCourse. Again, all you have to do is sign up for the free "How to Be Irresistible to Men" Email Newsletter Series at www.000relationships.com/tomen/ [1]. I'll be excited to hear what you think!