How to Attract Women: Day 6 of Free Mini-Course!

Hey, and welcome back to the final lesson of my How to Be Irresistible to Women 6-Part Mini-Course!

Many guys don’t even think about it, let alone know how to create it. That can lead to you being far less attractive to a woman that if you are one of those guys who “gets it.”

I want you to imagine for a moment how it feels if you have an incredibly hot babe that likes you; you like her, and you’ve been out on a few dates.

Imagine that you weren’t sure at any point that you’ve got her. And finally, after an amazing date, the two of you sleep together.

Now compare that to meeting an incredibly hot babe, and the first time you try to make a move, she’s happy to sleep with you, and you do.

If you’re like most guys, you’d be happy with either situation. But, as you can see, the first of the two is more exciting.

Eighty percent of your initial attraction instinct is based on looks and twenty percent on personality. So either of the above seem like good outcomes, even if the first scenario is more satisfying.

Imagine if a woman were to meet a guy and hit it off with him. Then imagine that he has a pretty busy schedule, because he leads quite an exciting life, so she only gets to see him a couple of times a week. Imagine she knows he is attracted to her, but he’s such a good catch he definitely has other options and hasn’t decided yet 100% whether or not he wants more from her.

Imagine that a few weeks later he finally gives into his urges and, in a moment of passion, they sleep together.

THAT for a woman is an example of sexual tension. And THAT for a woman is the equivalent of what a guy feels when he meets a super hot babe. You see, for her, 80% of her attraction is based on personality and 20% on looks – the complete opposite to you.

If she were to meet a guy who responds instantly to all her advances, who’s available at any time, who’s only too keen to sleep with her, then attraction is lost. That is her equivalent of what a guy feels when he meets an average- or below average-looking girl.

It is GREAT NEWS for men out there that a woman’s attraction instinct is 80% based on personality, because that means that virtually every man out there has a chance to attract and seduce the most beautiful of women.

In fact, it has been proven that when it comes to looks, women pay more attention to grooming and hygiene than they do to other aspects of a man’s looks.

So we’ve established that for a woman to create sexual tension, she has to be hot. But what is it that a man needs to have?

Men who have good social awareness.

If you can make her friends laugh and feel comfortable around you, that will also lead to her being more attracted to you. If you have a good social circle that she enjoys the company of, that also is of great benefit to you – especially if there are other women in that circle.

The Importance of Momentum

Getting a woman to become attracted to you and eventually sleep with you is a process that occurs in definite stages. You approach a woman, you start a conversation, you start to develop an emotional connection or rapport, you make a decision about whether or not you're interested in this person, and then you escalate the physical side of the attraction.

Your interaction with a woman should always be moving in a direction. Your first goal is to establish a conversation, your second goal is to establish the feeling of a connection, and so forth. Making sexual advances before she's become attracted to you will just cause her to think you're a creep.

If you've made it past the approach and are enjoying a casual conversation with a woman, then introduce nonsexual touching so that she gets used to the idea of being in physical contact with you without thinking it's "sexual." Put an arm around her shoulder, take her hand and lead her to another table, or touch her arm to make a point. Don't act like it's a big deal, because it's not.

If she stiffens up when you touch her or becomes uncomfortable, then simply go back to developing an emotional connection with her by using the conversation tips I talked about in Day 2.

You want to have some indication that she's feeling physically comfortable with you before you move along further.

Barbara and Allen Pease have a great metaphor: they say that men are like gas burners while women are like electric ovens. It takes a while for a woman to warm up to the idea of getting intimate with you. That's why you want to make sure she's comfortable with nonsexual touching before you move to the next level.

Playing games that involve touch can be a great way to break down those physical boundaries. For example, put your hands over her eyes and ask her to guess what color shirt your friend is wearing to see to see if she was paying attention. This will serve the dual purpose of making her qualify herself to you and allowing her to enjoy the experience of you being metaphorically "in control" of her.

If she's comfortable initiating physical contact with you, such as pulling you over to the dance floor, punching you playfully, or grabbing your arm, then you're ready to move to the next level.

Women can get as frustrated as men when a guy they're interested in won't make the next move. If thoughts of rejection appear in your head at this stage, then either she hasn't given you enough IOIs or you're not in control of your game. A lot of guys who are masters with women now used to find themselves stuck at this very stage. They could get a woman attracted to them but couldn't "close."

Your next goal is to get her away from her friends and in a place where you two can be "alone" together, even if that's just at a different table or going outside for a smoke. Remember that most women won't feel comfortable making out with you in full view of her friends and everyone else.

If you've done your groundwork (e.g., developed a connection), then she'll willingly go with you. You want to make sure that her friends like you and are okay with her going with you, because if they don't, they'll make it hard for you and keep coming over to check up on her.

Obviously, there's more to this, but you get this idea. You have to be willing to keep moving things to the next level and recalibrate at every point. If she pulls back, then you pull back. If she acts like she's not interested, then you focus on chatting to her friends and ignore her. If she wants to go back to her friends, then you let her go and wander back to talk to your friends.

A lot of this is really going to come down to your own internal control over your insecurities and your belief system.

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Hey, it's great you could come with me on this 6-Part Mini-Course on How to Be Irresistible to Women. Hopefully you’re finding opportunities to apply what you have learned! This stuff won’t do you any good if it just stays inside your head: you’ve got to go out and apply it by approaching and meeting the kind of women you really want.

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Thanks again for joining me, and all the best to your future amazing success with women!

"How to Be Irresistible to Women" 6-Part Mini-Course

DAY 6: How to Create "Chemistry" and "Sexual Tension"