"How to Be Irresistible to Women" 6-Part Mini-CourseDAY 2: What Women Are Really Attracted To in a Man + Conversation TipsJune 16th, 2026 From James: Welcome back to the How to Be Irresistible to Women 6-Part Mini-Course! Yesterday we looked at:
And over the next few days we’ll be covering:
Right, so now it’s time for you to discover what women are REALLY attracted to in a man – and I’ll share with you some conversation tips… Attraction for women feels like a powerful drug. Once she’s under its influence, it is very hard for her to resist it. Ever seen women with jerks? Attraction, that’s why. Now I’m not going to teach you to be a jerk. Yes, there are aspects that jerks have that make them attractive, but why be a jerk when you can be a better person AND have more women attracted to you? So you know attraction is a very powerful thing with women. If she’s attracted, you can do a lot wrong and she’ll still want you. But why does she feel attraction and, more importantly, how can you get her to feel that inner gut attraction for YOU? I’m going to show you five characteristics that – if you possess these and actively demonstrate them in your personality, tone and body language – you’ll be well on your way to being totally irresistible to women. The first thing you must have is: 1. A Strong Identity. Do you know who you are? What you want in life? And, more importantly, do you actively chase after your dreams and do everything you can to make them happen? Women love men who are passionate. You don’t have to be passionate about anything in particular, just passionate about SOMETHING. And make sure that is an important part of your life – more important than pursuing women. The second thing that attracts women is: 2. A man who can stimulate her emotions. Notice how women get hooked on gossip magazines, tv soaps, tabloids and so forth? There is a big reason for that. These dramas take them on an emotional journey. They get to read and watch stories that make them feel happy, sad, excited, angry and much more. Women LOVE to feel emotions and switch between them. This is a very big topic and needs a lot further explanation, but I’ll give you a quick insight as to how you can achieve this (it is exceptionally well covered in How to be Irresistible to Women: The Mastery Series by some well-known seduction gurus). There are four ways you communicate to women that stimulate her emotions:
I cover them in detail in my Premium and Mastery courses. But just to touch on one of the above, language, or what you say… Remember, if you can stimulate at least five of her emotions (happy, sad, excited, humor, etc.) within your first hour or so of talking to her, then she won’t be able to get enough of you! How can you make her feel these things? Tell stories! Bring up a funny story, such as how last weekend you accidentally locked yourself out of the house with your shoelace tied in the door and felt so embarrassed because your housemate came home just as you were searching for your keys (embarrassment and humor). If you’re talking about your job or career, tell her about how excited you are about what you are doing, or want to do, and let her feel what you feel (excitement). Tell her about your friend who got punched by a police officer last weekend and put in jail when he was simply trying to break up a fight (angry). If you are talking about music, tell her how you feel when you listen to your favorite band. Ask her how she feels when she listens to her favorite band. Hint: It is hard for her to tell you how she feels without actually feeling it inside. I hope this gives you some idea of how to make her feel emotions. It should also show you how to become a better conversationalist. Remember, a LOT more is covered on this in my Premium and Mastery courses. Now, on to characteristic number three, you must: 3. Demonstrate leadership. This can be demonstrated through stories, but it is even better when you demonstrate it through your actions. Here are some examples:
This leads on to the next characteristic you must have to be irresistible to women: 4. Be a challenge. When you become a challenge, you gain the attention of a woman's thoughts and feelings. Women are NOT attracted to pushovers! They are attracted to men who are a challenge – a prize to be sought after. When you learn to master the "Give a little, then lean back" tactic, you will create in the woman's mind an "I want more" thought process. The fastest way to become uninteresting and boring is to keep giving her lots and lots of attention too early in your courtship and give her everything she wants without her having to earn it. When you get a woman to "miss you," you create a powerful effect: ATTRACTION. Men that are unpredictable do something that is almost MAGIC... when a man understands how to make a woman feel ATTRACTION, then he doesn't do things that are PREDICTABLE, and women will tend to think about him ALL THE TIME. Now on to the fifth essential element of being irresistible to women: 5. Have good social awareness. A woman’s reputation means everything to her. So it is very important that she is with someone who enhances her reputation. If you get along well with her peers and can demonstrate that you get along well with your own friends – and that you have a lot of friends – then this is a great way of demonstrating your social skills. Another way is by dealing with her small tests and token resistance that she may throw at you in a manner that lets her know that it is NO BIG DEAL to you. Women have natural built-in strategies to screen men out and see if you are who you seem to be. For instance, if she says, “I have a boyfriend,” just say, “That’s nice,” and carry on with what you were saying unfazed. Over half the time, she doesn’t actually have one. There is A LOT for me to teach you in the art of social skills, social awareness and how to deal with women’s little tests, and that is all covered in detail in both my Premium and Mastery courses. So here’s a recap: what are women REALLY attracted to in a man?
Now go out and put these techniques into practice! Tomorrow we’ll look at: Day 3: How to approach women and "ice-breakers" All the best to your dating success!
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