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Day 6 - Become a New "You"

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and Amy Waterman

In the past five days, you have learned about the stages of seduction, the difference between attraction and love, the barriers to practicing love, how your beliefs can kill attraction, and techniques for opening yourself up to change in your life. It’s a lot of information to absorb and understand over such a short period. You may have questions, which is perfectly natural. My “How to Be Irresistible to Men” course will go into all of these topics in greater depth.

Today, we’re going to focus on how we can put all of those ideas together by creating a “New You.” This New You will feel so comfortable around men that she doesn’t hesitate to flirt, smile, or make small talk. She’ll be happy if she meets a man and happy if she doesn’t. The New You is focused on one goal: being the best person she can be. This involves reaching out in love, feeling warmly towards everyone she meets, and letting herself open full-heartedly towards those she cares about.

Simply envisioning the kind of person you want to be puts you one step closer to becoming that person. If you have no idea about what kind of life you want and what kind of change you want to make in your life, you’ll never be able to get there.

You’ve learned some very important ideas that you can already implement. At every opportunity, smile. Don’t doubt yourself. Silence self-defeating thoughts. Give your hopes more mental space than your worries. Be positive about others. Don’t make excuses for yourself. Believe that TODAY (and every day) is full of potential.

To sum up everything you’ve learned, I’d like to give you a list of ten principles that are crucial to attracting and developing a deep and enduring love.

1. Love Your Body

You are beautiful. You ARE. You are most radiant when you’re happy and at peace with yourself. Let your own inner beauty glow by pampering your body, caring for it, and appreciating it.

2. Love Others.

The more you express admiration, respect, and appreciation towards other people, the more other people will enjoy your company and seek you out. When you are well-liked, you attract more favorable attention. Men will notice you and, because they’ve seen how warm-hearted you are, they’ll feel comfortable approaching you and starting a conversation. “Bitchy” behavior will only serve to dismay the nice guys and turn off everyone except the most inveterate players.

3. Give Men a Helping Hand.

Men HATE rejection. Most men find that getting up the courage to approach a woman is nerve-racking. As a result, they’ll often wait until they receive some signal of interest from the woman before making an effort.

So give them a helping hand! Show your interest by flirting, making eye contact, or smiling. Chat with any man who crosses your path. Being polite, friendly, and open to making new friends will make you enormously attractive and appealing to the RIGHT kind of guys … the kind with genuine, warm and loving hearts.

4. No Excuses.

We all have reasons for why we’re not seeing someone. Maybe you’re too busy, or you don’t have enough money to go out, or you don’t have the right clothes to go clubbing, or you simply can’t meet anyone, or there’s no one around that you’re interested in, or it’s not the right time in your life.

You don’t need excuses. Accept that you have chosen your life as it is right now. If it’s not the life you want, you have the power to change. Empower yourself to believe in possibilities.

If you feel sorry for yourself, believing that you haven’t been born with the same looks and advantages as other women, think of self-pity like ice cream. It may feel good, but it’s not good for you.

If you’re having difficulties feeling that you have the power to change, I suggest the wonderful book by Susan Jeffers that I’ve already mentioned, Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway.

5. Put Yourself First.

Remember why you are dating. The goal is not to “get a man”: it’s to give and experience LOVE. If you want deeply to be with a man who does not value you, who does not treat you well, or who does not bring out the best in you as a person, then you might need to consider why you value him more than yourself.

YOU MATTER. How he makes you feel matters. Whether you feel loved matters. What you think of him matters.

Putting yourself first means that you never jump into a relationship with a man that isn’t right for you JUST so that you can avoid feeling lonely.

Putting yourself first means that you invest at least as much time in developing yourself as you do in trying to find a man.

Putting yourself first means that you evaluate the men you meet on the basis of how they make you feel RATHER THAN how much of a “catch” they are.

Don’t try so hard to get a man that you lose yourself in the process.

6. Let Life Happen.

When you’re wondering what that phone call meant, or what it mean when he said X, or what it meant when he invited you to that his cousin’s wedding … stop. Let go of your need to know what everything meant.

Let life unfold as it was meant to. You may believe that you know what’s best for you (and what’s best for him), but in reality none of us know the greater plan that Life has in store for us. Having faith that everything is happening as it was meant to—even if we don’t understand WHY—can help us accept and be at peace when a relationship breaks up, or when we don’t get the guy we wanted.

One thing that I can promise you is that when you allow the universe to unfold as it should, you’ll receive better things than you’d ever dreamed of for yourself. For example, in the past, each time that one of my relationships ended, I was devastated and believed that I’d lost the best thing that had ever happened to me. It wasn’t until recently that I looked back on my past relationships and realized that every new relationship was zillions better than the one before it. If I’d stuck with my first boyfriend forever, I would have missed out on the deeper love that I enjoyed with later partners.

Love just keeps getting better.

7. Live NOW.

Stop worrying about tomorrow. Would your relationship with him be any less enjoyable if you knew that it would eventually end? We must accept that 90% of our relationships WILL END. It’s a fact of life. The only way that you’ll avoid experiencing breakups is if you never date at all.

In order to successfully navigate the dating world, you must learn to take pleasure in the moment. All too often, I hear women say, “I wish I would have enjoyed being with him more while we were still together.” If you can’t enjoy the time you have with someone because you’re too focused on whether or not he’s going to propose, then you’re ripping yourself off.

You can’t love someone when they’re gone, so make sure you focus on giving him the love you feel RIGHT NOW. Don’t let an opportunity go by to show him how much you appreciate having him in your life. Today you’re together, tomorrow no one knows, so learn to feel blessed with each day you have together.

8. Let Go.

When it’s time for a relationship to end, or when a man that you like finally tells you that he’s not interested, show your true inner beauty by letting him go with love.

All of us resist breakups with all of our hearts, because it hurts so much. When he tells us goodbye, our first thought is how to get him back. We’ve given him the best we have; how could he reject it? He simply must not realize how WONDERFUL we are … maybe if we showed him, then he’d change his mind.

He won’t. In the majority of cases, he’s made his decision. When you let him go with grace, you’ll be like the face of an angel. Chances are that he’s never experienced a breakup where the woman accepted his decision and let him go with her blessing. He’ll think of you in a whole different light, and he’ll respect and admire you forever after.

Sadly, many women leave a relationship kicking and screaming. They hurl abuse at their ex-partner. As a result, their ex wants nothing more than to get away as soon as possible.

Don’t be one of those women. If he doesn’t love you enough to hold onto you with his last breath, then he’s not the man for you. If he breaks up with you, he’s NOT the man for you. If you have problems understanding this concept, read Greg Behrendt’s He’s Just Not That Into You.

9. Smile.

So simple, isn’t it? But meeting a stranger’s eyes with a smile upon your lips is perhaps the single most important thing you can do to meet more men.

Everyone loves a smile. A smile shows the world that you’re happy, friendly, and at peace with yourself. The most beautiful women in the world smile with their whole face. Who cares about laugh lines? Joy is irresistibly attractive.

10. See Opportunities Everywhere.

If you believe that your world is full of opportunities to meet great men, I can promise you that you’ll meet fantastic men in the most random places. But if you have any doubts … if you believe that the men in your town aren’t good enough for whatever reason, or if you believe that you’re not pretty enough to get a man … you’ll find it hard to meet men.

It may seem a little odd to believe that your mental state influences the opportunities you’ll have, but on another level it makes perfect sense: you have to SEE an opportunity to be able to take advantage of it.

As long as you keep the possibility open that you’ll run into a fantastic man tomorrow, you’ll be on the lookout for great men walking past, waiting next to you in line, or eating lunch at your café. You’ll be more likely to strike up a conversation with a stranger, knowing that there’s a possibility that he could be your dream man.

If, on the other hand, you believe that you’ll never meet someone who’ll fall in love with you, you’ll walk through town with your eyes closed to the possibilities of the strangers all around you. You may strike up a conversation with someone at a coffee shop yet believe that he’d never be interested in you. When you send off these closed signals, men will get the hint that you’re not open to a relationship—even if that’s what you want more than anything else in the world!

So take care that the signals you’re sending out are friendly, positive, and open to possibilities.

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