Comments on: Book Review of Christian Carter’s Catch Him and Keep Him

By: Scot McKay

Scot McKay — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 10:49:35 +0000

I stumbled upon this site while looking for a logo of the CC “Dating Experts” series, as Amy is a dear friend and frequent collaborator of ours here at X & Y Communications.

Having read some comments above, I wanted to clear up a few items because I believe we’re in the unique position to do so.

My wife, Emily McKay (of course), is going to be on Christian’s interview series for December. We were actually on site in LA last week to record the interview face-to-face with Christian.

(BTW, if you get in on the CD series this month, that means you’ll hear Christian and Emily’s conversation next month.)

I can not only assure you he’s a real guy, but that he’s the real deal. Very much in real life as he appears in his videos.

We spent the whole day with him and some members of his production team and everyone was a class act all around.

As Emily and I similarly have dating advice books and programs that we provide via Internet, I’d suggest that any who have had issues with ordering, etc. remember that e-commerce is far from perfect and there are inevitable glitches.

I’m all but sure that CC and his team are, like us, committed to making sure any issues are resolved if/when given the chance.

Cheers,

Scot McKay
X & Y Communications

By: Edith

Edith — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 04:36:30 +0000

The reason why there is not a picture of Christian Carter is because I think he is in reality, David de Angelo. A popular author of dating e-books for men. I have read his “Double your Dating” e-book, and it’s good. So I’m interested in buying this one and see what he has to say to us women now.

I think it’s David because of the e-books “sell sheet”, the writing style is very similar to David’s.

By: Relationship advice that makes a difference

Relationship advice that makes a difference — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 04:09:45 +0000

Lots of information to digest. I\’ll need some time to think about this.

By: AW

AW — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 12:43:06 +0000

I was intrigued but wouldn’t buy this e-book as its too expensive. I have also read of people being ripped off with things they didnt order after registering with Christians site. Its seems like a scam to me.

By: Sexy Girl

Sexy Girl — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 21:59:54 +0000

I agree. Christian Carter’s book is for women who want to catch a great catch. It is not for women who want A guy, any guy. Any guy would be happy to find A woman, any woman and snatch her before anyone else does. Christian’s book is for those who want to find and catch one the best most sought after men.

By: mj

mj — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 23:21:43 +0000

I purchased CC’s e-book about a year and a half ago. A few reviews I have read of the book have emphasized the fact that it tells women the “obvious”. I felt the same way when I read it - the advice and insight was obvious, and yet sometimes the obvious escapes us. The book got me over my last relationship and helped me to realize that I was not crazy, that I needed to wake up and date the right person. I entered my current relationship with no pretenses, with high (but realistic) expectations, and it has been really great for a year now. I think what CC’s book taught me was how to choose a man to date, and not to settle. It also taught me to avoid acting on my fears. Just because I have been cheated to and lied to in the past does not mean I need to place those paranoias on my current boyfriend. Sure, keep an eye out (because you just never know) but keep your mouth shut - showing your deep insecurities to men, even the greatest ones, causes all sorts of trouble. Anyway, I’m going on and on. Point is: CC’s book is worth the read. And hell, if you don’t like it after a week or whatever, you can return it at no cost (at least that was the deal when I bought it - but I kept it.) Good luck!

By: AppleMartini

AppleMartini — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 11:08:35 +0000

Good, beautiful and nice women who don’t know how to act, and control men are cursed.

Manipulative and less attractive women who can can and manipulate men the right way are blessed with good marriage.

Despite of all the chase and play, men are stupid after all. They miss the best they can have then settle with something less.

So, girls if you are repeated unsuccessful in relationships, don’t be sad. The men are punished to be what they deserve. Now move on to the best catch you can catch, because it’s not about how young and pretty you are, it’s about how manipulative you can be in a situation.

Women rule!!! Thank God.

By: Jae

Jae — Mon, 07 Jan 2008 22:37:13 +0000

I recently purchased CC, Catch him and Keep him book. I will say that originally, I was in a new relationship where the “honeymoon” phase started to fade out and I noticed that this guy started to become “distant”, so I thought to utilize the book solely to mend this relationship. But at the end of the day, the book has taught me so much more about the thoughts that men have when women take on certain actions when dating overall. It is a look from the outside in, with a real man’s perspective on how men perecieve dating. To be sure that I wasn’t just in agreement with CC’s book due to my own desperation and naievity, I spoke with a few of my guy friends about it for their own feedback, and they completely agreed!!!
Unfortunately women and men do think alike. And if you are repeating patterns that result in rejection and negativity through your dating style, then why not give this a chance to use some of the exercises he gives you to use in your next dating experience, and experiment with the result. If it is better…then hey…what did you have to lose? I also love that you can download it and revisit the book anytime you need to, creating a “practice makes perfect” repetition and either enhance or edit your dating style, actions and beliefs.
I don’t hear him saying to lose yourself as a woman, or to fully succumb to men in full, but how to easily compromise or refurbish your actions and thoughts to make it easier for a man to deal with you, and in turn help you to build and gain more confidence over insecurity because you are now seen as someone a guy wants to be with, rather than someone he is just “ho hum” about. I mean at the end of the day, you have just been given 183 pages on the ingsights and thoughts of a man, and when put to use, the man you are dealing with has no clue what has made him start falling for you….WHO WINS HERE? You have literally been given the magic potion that you’ve been asking for to help you create a better you, while also appealing to MEN. …

By: amy

amy — Sun, 06 Jan 2008 19:10:26 +0000

Hi, Donna! From what I know, the book itself is not available in an audio version. However, the package does include (as bonuses) audio interviews with dating experts, which I highly recommend!

By: Donna J Burrows

Donna J Burrows — Tue, 25 Dec 2007 22:57:06 +0000

is it possible to buy the actual book “Catch him and Keep him” by Christian Carter on audio? cd or cassette?