Comments on: Loving with a Disability

By: rhonda

rhonda — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 01:35:45 +0000

I have MS and try just to stay in as have people gawk at me!!!! People are rude. I am now 58 and all alone but use my computer all the time. I have always been picky eith my makeup/hair. I try to keep myself looking good. But I really would like to have a campion with me. I have been married twice/2 daughters. One lives around here the other in Texas. I get tired of being alone. Just looking for a man that would understand. I am still mobile but I use a walker..that I hate. Makes me look to old

By: sumarti

sumarti — Tue, 01 Aug 2006 13:10:44 +0000

I’m disable myself, I’ve met a wonderful man who love me for what I’m, but I was too scared to receive his love and my jealousy hurting me, I felt inferior to a lot of women who healhtier than me. He likes camping, runing and hiking,I can’t join and enjoy his activity.I become winny & cranky, he’s too good for me.So I dumped him & made him dumped me. Now I regret & feel bad.

By: Lucia

Lucia — Tue, 01 Aug 2006 12:18:21 +0000

I totally agree!!!
I have had a total hearing loss in my left ear since I was a child. I can’t wear a traditional hearing aid. My only remedy is a cross hearing aid. however I choose not to wear one because it is big and bulky and draws too much attention. Besides, I hear better than most people with my one ear anyway.
I don’t ussually tell people either cause I find that some people start actting like idiots screaming at me and asking to prove it by wispering in to my bad ear and then asking me to repeat what they just said (which for thous of you who haven’t figured it out is really RUDE). This make me so up set at times.
On the other hand, after explaing to some people they are really cool about it and compliment me, they let me know that if I had never told them, they would have never known. This makes me feel good.
I belive that God makes some of us diffrent so that other can learn from us, to value what they have. I also believe that God only gives us what we can handle.
I was once told by a friend that God only gave me hearing from one ear because, I am unlike the the rest of the world that shuts out God’s little wispers from their lives. I am one of the few that still takes the time to listen through the stillness, and threw me other poeple learned to listen as well.

By: sue

sue — Tue, 01 Aug 2006 07:42:04 +0000

i aggree what ever disabilty you have , if you can look into the soul of the person you are with , and two souls meet with happiness, then forget all the other things and deal with problems as the arrive