Comments on: Wise Words from Sarah http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/ the ultimate resource to get the relationship you always wanted Tue, 06 Jan 2009 04:41:05 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 By: Carolyn http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-128033 Carolyn Sun, 04 Nov 2007 05:45:57 +0000 http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-128033 Reply to Katés comment. Just wondered if you are still together, and if you are have things improved. I can completely understand your situation. It sounds like he does think highly enough of you to say that, but it sounds like he is on a different page to yourself. That doesn't make him a bad person, it could be behaviour he has seen as normal while he was growing up, or it could mean he is not in a position to give you what you are needing at this stage in his life. It seems very selfish, but men behave like this when they are working towards something but he is neglecting you which is not healthy. If you haven't talked to him? If he is not willing to understand where you are coming from, then put yourself first and don't let him disapoint you any more. Get some help first as a relationship is something too precious to throw away. Reply to Katés comment.
Just wondered if you are still together, and if you are have things improved. I can completely understand your situation. It sounds like he does think highly enough of you to say that, but it sounds like he is on a different page to yourself. That doesn’t make him a bad person, it could be behaviour he has seen as normal while he was growing up, or it could mean he is not in a position to give you what you are needing at this stage in his life. It seems very selfish, but men behave like this when they are working towards something but he is neglecting you which is not healthy. If you haven’t talked to him? If he is not willing to understand where you are coming from, then put yourself first and don’t let him disapoint you any more. Get some help first as a relationship is something too precious to throw away.

]]> By: Marie Jacquelyne http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-1415 Marie Jacquelyne Tue, 29 Aug 2006 18:00:35 +0000 http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-1415 Me too, I thought something was wrong with me that I couldn't last in a relationship until I realized that I was letting myself be chosen and accepting the fact that "he" wanted me and not looking if "he" was right for me. I have changed all that and feel much better now that "I" wait and see, if "he" is one I would chose to be my mate forever. Me too, I thought something was wrong with me that I couldn’t last in a relationship until I realized that I was letting myself be chosen and accepting the fact that “he” wanted me and not looking if “he” was right for me.
I have changed all that and feel much better now that “I” wait and see, if “he” is one I would chose to be my mate forever.

]]> By: Christal http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-981 Christal Tue, 01 Aug 2006 00:24:01 +0000 http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-981 I also received that advice from Sarah in one of her newsletters... and I do believe that it is the best words of wisdom I had ever read about singlehood. For the first time in my life, I didn't feel sorry for myself about being single. I'm 19 years old, and I have not yet been in a real relationship. But now, I don't feel like I SHOULD be in a relationship. I feel okay with my single status. Now that I think about it, I did have some things to sort out before I got involved in a relationship. I'm just glad I could stumble upon those encourageing words so that I could stop thinking negatively about myself and start taking control of my life. Thanks Sarah for the wise words, and thanks Amy for the reminder. It never hurts to be reminded that we are all beautiful, wonderful women. I also received that advice from Sarah in one of her newsletters… and I do believe that it is the best words of wisdom I had ever read about singlehood. For the first time in my life, I didn’t feel sorry for myself about being single. I’m 19 years old, and I have not yet been in a real relationship. But now, I don’t feel like I SHOULD be in a relationship. I feel okay with my single status. Now that I think about it, I did have some things to sort out before I got involved in a relationship. I’m just glad I could stumble upon those encourageing words so that I could stop thinking negatively about myself and start taking control of my life. Thanks Sarah for the wise words, and thanks Amy for the reminder. It never hurts to be reminded that we are all beautiful, wonderful women.

]]> By: Ruth http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-978 Ruth Mon, 31 Jul 2006 10:44:36 +0000 http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-978 Great words sisters i am 24 and have been out of a relationship for 2years now i don't know whether i don't attract men or men don't attract me but after falling out with the best guy i ever knew because he cheated on me, i move around carrying shadows of our past.i hope the wise words sink into my skull. whenever i want to date it seems like i'm cheating on the god forsaken guy. last nite he sent me a mail saying he is thinking alot about me but i have the feeling that once a cheat always a cheat. Do men really change? why has he not bothered for up to 2 years where is he coming from to wake a sleeping dog. i hope i can change SOMEONE HELP Great words sisters
i am 24 and have been out of a relationship for 2years now i don’t know whether i don’t attract men or men don’t attract me but after falling out with the best guy i ever knew because he cheated on me, i move around carrying shadows of our past.i hope the wise words sink into my skull. whenever i want to date it seems like i’m cheating on the god forsaken guy. last nite he sent me a mail saying he is thinking alot about me but i have the feeling that once a cheat always a cheat. Do men really change? why has he not bothered for up to 2 years where is he coming from to wake a sleeping dog. i hope i can change SOMEONE HELP

]]> By: lola http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-952 lola Thu, 27 Jul 2006 14:01:20 +0000 http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-952 heyy thx so much for dat u very nice ladies might think im kind of stupid for signing up as well since im 14 but it cnt hurt to know all this before right?well i just wanna thank you sooo much for all this information especially since i feel da pressure to change myself love,lola! heyy thx so much for dat u very nice ladies might think im kind of stupid for signing up as well since im 14 but it cnt hurt to know all this before right?well i just wanna thank you sooo much for all this information especially since i feel da pressure to change myself
love,lola!

]]> By: kate http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-926 kate Wed, 26 Jul 2006 06:30:58 +0000 http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-926 hi thanks for the message i really needed, it, i have been in a relationship for the last five months but during that time i have only been on a date with him once, though he has come to my place twice. he only calls me once a week and we are supposed to be in a relationship. we are both doctoral students and very busy but hey i thought love makes you want to be together more often? at least my understanding of love. everytime we agree to meet something comes up and he cancels. i believe he is not really into me, last nite i sent him a message to end the relationship and he argues that am giving up too soon. after reading your mail, i really think i should leave him and find a man who trully has time for me. what do you think? kate hi
thanks for the message i really needed, it, i have been in a relationship for the last five months but during that time i have only been on a date with him once, though he has come to my place twice. he only calls me once a week and we are supposed to be in a relationship. we are both doctoral students and very busy but hey i thought love makes you want to be together more often? at least my understanding of love. everytime we agree to meet something comes up and he cancels. i believe he is not really into me, last nite i sent him a message to end the relationship and he argues that am giving up too soon. after reading your mail, i really think i should leave him and find a man who trully has time for me. what do you think?
kate

]]> By: Rose http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-924 Rose Wed, 26 Jul 2006 05:31:50 +0000 http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-924 Hi Thank you so much Sarah for the informative artcles you keep sending to us! I also can relate to Renee where I would stereotype men in general despite their compliments. This article puts this perspective in a positive light. It makes me think how much time I have wasted!!! Hi Thank you so much Sarah for the informative artcles you keep sending to us! I also can relate to Renee where I would stereotype men in general despite their compliments. This article puts this perspective in a positive light. It makes me think how much time I have wasted!!!

]]> By: Tina http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-920 Tina Wed, 26 Jul 2006 00:31:38 +0000 http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-920 I am 48 and single for 3 years now. I would like to find someone but it seems I only attract married men.I thought the article " wise words from sarah" was a wonderful article. I sure hope all men do not cheat if the oportunity is there. My last relationship of 25 years ended due to infidelity on his part. So I will do some soul searching and try to see if there is something in me that only attracts unavailable men.Oh yeah I'll work on the beleiving it will happen. Maybe thats the key to the whole thing.I enjoy your e-mails Thanks for all the inspiration. Later T I am 48 and single for 3 years now. I would like to find someone but it seems I only attract married men.I thought the article ” wise words from sarah” was a wonderful article. I sure hope all men do not cheat if the oportunity is there. My last relationship of 25 years ended due to infidelity on his part. So I will do some soul searching and try to see if there is something in me that only attracts unavailable men.Oh yeah I’ll work on the beleiving it will happen. Maybe thats the key to the whole thing.I enjoy your e-mails Thanks for all the inspiration. Later T

]]> By: Carolyn http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-919 Carolyn Tue, 25 Jul 2006 21:11:15 +0000 http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-919 I almost didnt read the article "Getting Over the Ghosts" so glad I did as it actually happened to me last week. I almost lost the man that has taken better care of me (and my son) than anyone including my former husband. I realized that I held things against him that werent his fault. We are building things back up now, still a little shakey, wish me luck... I almost didnt read the article “Getting Over the Ghosts” so glad I did as it actually happened to me last week. I almost lost the man that has taken better care of me (and my son) than anyone including my former husband. I realized that I held things against him that werent his fault. We are building things back up now, still a little shakey, wish me luck…

]]> By: Carol http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-916 Carol Tue, 25 Jul 2006 19:43:49 +0000 http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/07/21/wise-words-from-sarah/#comment-916 Sorry Renee I'm still of the notion, that men are looking for one thing. I'm 49 years old, extremely attractive and never found the one. Look at Christy Brinkley. Sorry Renee

I’m still of the notion, that men are looking for one thing. I’m 49 years old, extremely attractive and never found the one. Look at Christy Brinkley.

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