Comments on: Waking Up Alone in Your 30s http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/05/21/waking-up-alone-in-your-30s/ the ultimate resource to get the relationship you always wanted Tue, 29 Jun 2010 01:35:45 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Sam http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/05/21/waking-up-alone-in-your-30s/comment-page-1/#comment-10769 Sam Thu, 22 Mar 2007 07:39:04 +0000 http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/05/21/waking-up-alone-in-your-30s/#comment-10769 I am 34 years old. Last summer I was so desperate to find a man and get married that I got engaged to a guy after 4 days I met him. Apparently I was happy to finally find a man but in my heart I knew he was not worth it. I met this guy through familly, he was unemployed, was weared, talking all the time about homosexuals...but he was very handsome.I was engaged to him for 3 months and it was a hell, I think this guy used me to get his revenge from the whole universe...Result: I suffered unnecessarily. Finally I broke up with him. It is really not worth it to be with a man just for not being alone. We deserve to have a good man who cares about us, even if it takes long time to find him, never accept less. I am 34 years old. Last summer I was so desperate to find a man and get married that I got engaged to a guy after 4 days I met him. Apparently I was happy to finally find a man but in my heart I knew he was not worth it. I met this guy through familly, he was unemployed, was weared, talking all the time about homosexuals…but he was very handsome.I was engaged to him for 3 months and it was a hell, I think this guy used me to get his revenge from the whole universe…Result: I suffered unnecessarily. Finally I broke up with him. It is really not worth it to be with a man just for not being alone. We deserve to have a good man who cares about us, even if it takes long time to find him, never accept less.

]]> By: allison http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/05/21/waking-up-alone-in-your-30s/comment-page-1/#comment-389 allison Tue, 20 Jun 2006 16:23:47 +0000 http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/05/21/waking-up-alone-in-your-30s/#comment-389 i'm now 30 and i learned the hard way i got married when i was 24 had two kids i went into this relationship because i was lonely and i was getting older it turned out to be a big mistake as he was abusive. 7yrs later i am now back to square 1 but with two children i finally got out of the marriage but now i'm scared incase i make the same mistake again. i’m now 30 and i learned the hard way i got married when i was 24 had two kids i went into this relationship because i was lonely and i was getting older it turned out to be a big mistake as he was abusive. 7yrs later i am now back to square 1 but with two children i finally got out of the marriage but now i’m scared incase i make the same mistake again.

]]> By: Colleen http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/05/21/waking-up-alone-in-your-30s/comment-page-1/#comment-382 Colleen Tue, 20 Jun 2006 14:38:01 +0000 http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/05/21/waking-up-alone-in-your-30s/#comment-382 Being 35, I can certainly relate. However, I believe that it is better to be alone and single than being with the 'wrong' person. Because if you ARE with the 'wrong' person, it literally can be a 'hell on earth' existence for you and that is not healthy at all. Being 35, I can certainly relate. However, I believe that it is better to be alone and single than being with the ‘wrong’ person. Because if you ARE with the ‘wrong’ person, it literally can be a ‘hell on earth’ existence for you and that is not healthy at all.

]]> By: Audrey Dansbury http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/05/21/waking-up-alone-in-your-30s/comment-page-1/#comment-340 Audrey Dansbury Thu, 15 Jun 2006 12:09:37 +0000 http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/05/21/waking-up-alone-in-your-30s/#comment-340 i want a man ,but it's really crazy out here now ,but i don't have a promble being alone. i want a man ,but it's really crazy out here now ,but i don't have a promble being alone.

]]> By: Debbie Cole http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/05/21/waking-up-alone-in-your-30s/comment-page-1/#comment-329 Debbie Cole Wed, 14 Jun 2006 08:09:33 +0000 http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/05/21/waking-up-alone-in-your-30s/#comment-329 Yes, many women get stressed out. I even sought therapy as a result. I'm 35 now. My therapist said many women seek therapy in their 30s, wondering why they're still single and what they can do to fix it. I get tired of the articles saying we don't need a man. It's a biological thing that we should pair up with someone. There's no way around it. I was dating so many men about a year ago to try and find a relationship. None of them seemed to be right for me. One guy was talking about his stomach surgery during dinner! Eew. Even the ones I liked didn't like me back. It was surreal. I did meet someone eventually (sort of by accident). I really will never know if I am settling or not with him. He's a decade younger than me, but swears he loves me and wants to get married. It's weird because he's so inexperienced, but then...it's sort of sweet too. Plus, what's up with everyone always trying to break you up saying there's someone better out there? Have you noticed those people are always single? I have. Anyway, the real kicker is that when we meet someone in our 30s finally, are we settling or is it for real? I guess we never really ever know the answer if this one is 'the one'. Either way, I'd rather be with someone than alone (unless it's abusive). My longest relationship was almost a decade ago, so it's not like I am not used to being single. I just finally realized I don't want to do it any longer. Debbie Yes, many women get stressed out. I even sought therapy as a result. I’m 35 now. My therapist said many women seek therapy in their 30s, wondering why they’re still single and what they can do to fix it. I get tired of the articles saying we don’t need a man. It’s a biological thing that we should pair up with someone. There’s no way around it. I was dating so many men about a year ago to try and find a relationship. None of them seemed to be right for me. One guy was talking about his stomach surgery during dinner! Eew. Even the ones I liked didn’t like me back. It was surreal. I did meet someone eventually (sort of by accident). I really will never know if I am settling or not with him. He’s a decade younger than me, but swears he loves me and wants to get married. It’s weird because he’s so inexperienced, but then…it’s sort of sweet too. Plus, what’s up with everyone always trying to break you up saying there’s someone better out there? Have you noticed those people are always single? I have.

Anyway, the real kicker is that when we meet someone in our 30s finally, are we settling or is it for real? I guess we never really ever know the answer if this one is ‘the one’. Either way, I’d rather be with someone than alone (unless it’s abusive). My longest relationship was almost a decade ago, so it’s not like I am not used to being single. I just finally realized I don’t want to do it any longer.

Debbie

]]> By: Susan http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/05/21/waking-up-alone-in-your-30s/comment-page-1/#comment-174 Susan Wed, 24 May 2006 22:31:59 +0000 http://www.000relationships.com/tomen/live/2006/05/21/waking-up-alone-in-your-30s/#comment-174 I really think this is a good article because so many women can relate to it. I know I have felt like that for the last five years. (I'm 35) But I have also read a lot of positive thinking self help books and I do believe that you get what you are expecting. Thanks for reminding me of that. Susan I really think this is a good article because so many women can relate to it. I know I have felt like that for the last five years. (I’m 35) But I have also read a lot of positive thinking self help books and I do believe that you get what you are expecting. Thanks for reminding me of that.
Susan

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